Its just a word!.... gay, queer, fag...are just words....love your blog
I'll admit that words sometimes are quite painful, but I also believe that they're only as powerful as we allow them to be. Once we realize that they're just that - words - we rob them of their ability to hurt us. Embrace your label.
But getting called a "hot bitch" by your ex-closeted-femme-lesbian GF just before she… well… "priceless".
Dare to dream!