Thursday, January 7, 2016

Sissy Caption - Almost


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  1. Wonderful Nikki. That last line is killer! But you also raise an interesting issue. What contitutes being gay? If I want to be kissed and held by a man but not have sex, am I gay? If I am emotionally but no sexually attracted to men, am I gay? And what of the reverse? Can it be a purely sexual thing and not be gay? I call myself bisexual because I am sexually attracted to men while sexually and emotionally attracted to women. But having made such a transition, I think she may be in a bit of denial!

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    1. I've wondered about that as well. It's difficult to articulate. I can easily imagine a situation where a man has absolutely no interest in an emotional relationship with another man, but who is attracted to the physical act of sex. Or a woman with a woman. Sure, under the technical definition, that person is homosexual. But there's a huge gray area there.

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    2. In US culture, we usually base sexuality on who you have sex with. Other cultures separate sex and sexuality. Casual sex does not determine sexuality in those cultures, rather who you choose to have a long term relationship with. In many ways this make a lot more sense than deciding someone is gay because they had sex with one man after a lifetime of sex and relationships with women. I tend to view sexuality as where your heart is at more than where your libido is, but I always have been one to bend or break the rules!

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  2. if you have basically been transformed into a female, how can having sex with men be gay?

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    1. Because, in his mind, he's still male - albeit one who has made some striking compromises in appearance to get his way.

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