I already have but don't have the means to achieve the desired result
I empathize. It's easy for everyone to just say, "Be yourself!" but in reality, sometimes that's just not possible. I know quite a few people who would happily live as their true gender if only they could pass reasonably well. But not many people want everyone to see a "dude in a dress". Kudos to those who don't bother to care what the rest of the world thinks; I know a lot of us would give anything to be that carefree so that we could live our lives the way we want to.
I admit this is what i want to be
That's the first step! The next is to do something about it!